Nobody teaches us this stuff in school.

 

If you are like most men, you were probably left to learn what it takes to date and be with an intimate partner through depictions in movies, porn, and the media.  

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It shouldn't be so hard to find an awesome girlfriend.    

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You’ve probably experienced rejection more times than you can count and don’t know how to make it stop hurting. 

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Or maybe you haven’t even gotten there because shyness or anxiety got in the way of trying.  

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Figuring out how to connect with someone has been a messy process of trial and error, mistakes and hurt feelings, and by now you may be acting out a role you subconsciously learned to play, and not really showing up as yourself in the process.

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You thought that being a good guy would be enough, but here you are, no longer a kid, still trying to have success in love and sex.