I was nervous a lot of the time.  I knew something was wrong about how I approached relationships, but didn't know what it was.  I wanted to feel more secure with myself.

 

I'm a confident person otherwise, but in dating I would fake it.  I never really felt confident.  It was like I was split in two- the fake person on the outside and the person who was constantly worried on the inside.

 

Now I have zero of these issues.

 

Now when I am with someone I am not constantly worried about losing her.

 

Our work together helped me be more confident, authentic and present. 

 

Before I was always strategizing, directing my every move when I was around women. 

 

Now I am just in the experience, alive with another human. 

 

I have so much more trust in myself and women than before.  I'm not constantly second guessing myself.  

 

The things I learned I can now take with me into the future. I now have a blueprint for navigating whatever issue there is- whether that's in a long term relationship or on a first date.

 

I don't think I ever would have figured this stuff out

without Erika. 

 

She had such an ability to make me feel comfortable, which was so important.  The things I shared with her I would probably feel embarrassed to talk about with someone else.  She was able to give me the nudge I needed in a way no one else ever could.

 

It's been over a year now and the things that we did in our sessions have had such an impact on me. I've shifted my mindset so much.

The things I learned with her have had an effect on my whole life.  It's allowed me to be more myself in everything I do- with my family, with my friends, at work.  It's not just in intimate relationships.